I've had plenty of "wings" in my time. A wing is a friend who goes out with you to help pick up women for each other. There's one common thread with every wing I've had. They ALL left the seduction scene for the same reason, every one of them said "it's OK, I don't need to go out any more, I've found a girl". I've never got to explain all my strategies to a single person, it never gets that far. They say that the mark of a true therapist is to put himself out of a job. I suppose that's what I do.

My goal has always been, not to be the best seducer, but to be the best teacher of seduction. For every pickup I did, I was thinking "could any guy do this ?", bearing in mind that most guys aren't even interested in seduction techniques at all. For every time I seduced a woman, I taught a guy how to improve their seduction skills. In other words, I'm just as interested in the mechanisms of how men can learn seduction as I am in learning the mechanisms of seduction itself. As I was finding all the common threads of women, I was finding all the common threads of teaching men how to best utilize what they already know.

Just like all good forms of psychology, I found the best form was story telling. So I explain what stories to tell, what to draw from your own personal experiences, how to tell them and what to look out for in the way of responses. But the book is far more than just story telling. The best seductions happen with no words at all. And I explain exactly how to do it.

Excerpt from the book:

A pick up guru once asked me "how much do you have to say to a woman ?" My answer was "nothing". I don't like to put labels on things, but if I did I'd say I'm a master pickup artist, you could go so far as to say genius I suppose. A friend (and seduction expert) once asked me "when did you first see the code ?". He was referring to the Matrix code of understanding interactions with women. My answer was that I've seen it for a long time, but explaining it is a whole different story.

Basically I do everything that the most of society says can't be done. It's my world. Many people nickname it "Mike's world". I break every rule of dating tradition. My room can be messy, my bed sheets stained (or no sheets at all), the house unkempt, I can say or do almost anything with women. I create my world, they follow. My explanation is that if I don't care for myself, then societies rules have no say in my environment. She accepts my mess and accepts that sex is acceptable in that environment. If I ain't bothered about anything, then I won't judge her if we have sex. I break these rules on purpose, to see how much I can get away with, and I can get away with almost anything, including not showering and wearing messy clothes and telling her I'm out of work. N.B. I'm not saying to be messy, just that my system is so powerful it doesn't matter.

When someone says to me "here's a seduction technique" I try it and then prove I can do the opposite of that technique as well, just as effectively. If someone says to me "be alpha" I'll try that, and then try being as non-alpha as possible, if someone says "dress for success", I'll try that, and then do the opposite as well. Like George Castanza in Seinfeld with his "opposites day". If someone says "don't supplicate", I'll try it and then I'll try shouting a girl everything she wants and be just as effective. My opinion is that you can do anything, and if done correctly you still succeed. I've seen so many different seduction experts at work, and none of them were the same. Every one was totally unique in their approach. From totally aggressive (totally in your face, we even had the police following us down the street and watching our every move) pickups, to guys like me who mostly just sit back and wait for the action to occur. I've met the kino's and the speed seducers and the cocky but funny and the NLP guys and the psychological guys, the violent guys (who get women by staring other random guys down), the bad boys (who are different to the violent guys and are mostly nice but have tattoos and a wild life-style with moments of badness), the dancing guys (who are VERY good at what they do), the sophisticated guys (speak multiple language and own multitudes of posh cars), the rich guys, the "street" guys (totally broke, but know how to handle women), the movie producers, the horny guys, guys who screw all their lady friends, the night club guys, the street pickup guys, the guys who only go for foreign girls, and the naturals. I've met the Don Juans of our day. All of them had only one thing in common, they all had screwed over 100 women and they all couldn't get enough pussy, plus they were all on their mission of meeting "the one". I saw that behind their great abilities that they had weaknesses, and they all felt that they'd like to do better. None of them seemed to FULLY understand women, none of them was fully secure within themselves. In all of that, I never met one guy who could keep up with me. Mostly because I go so slow at times it's frustrating and guys don't recognize what I'm doing, even after I've explained it to them (for example I might do nothing for a while and then suddenly be managing four girls at once, all in different parts of the club, the guys with me didn't even notice how I went from being lame to being all over the place with different girls, it's like I have X-Ray vision or something). I've travelled the world, and discovered that women are the same, no matter where you go, or what society they're in. I looked for the threads that are common to all women, I looked for the link that's common with every seduction style. To say it wasn't easy is an understatement. With billions of people on the planet, I came up with something revolutionary. Something totally new. I'm proud of this. I hope it serves people well.

A bit about me, My name is Mike Patrick aka Spidy (nothing to do with that guy in a red suit, a spider is both patient and aggressive, and gets signals when foods ready at the table, a spider observes and then strikes, a spider has many eyes, a spiders web is invisible and strong, once snared you can't escape) . Rather than write a book on seduction for money or ego I've written a book for effect. That's why it's been over 15 years in the making. I wrote an excellent book that long ago, but perfection takes time, and I waited until I felt comfortable this will work for others in a practical and integrating way. I've written a lot of this book from my own personal experiences, knowing that the stories I tell have been useful to other people and hopefully can be useful to you too. I was getting women wanting regular sex with me since before the first internet seduction guru's wrote their first book, the main teaching at that time was a thing called "The Right Attitude" or TRA for short. In the early days guru's were saying "it's impossible to pick up girls in a club", so I was ready to revolutionize people's thinking, but the more I learnt, the longer the book waited. Now people are getting good enough success with women, but this is a whole new "holistic" approach. I made a decision to break it all down, and I think the wait has been worthwhile. Whilst the rest of the seduction community was improving their skills, I was taking things to a whole new level. A level of realness, honesty, one that women could say "yes, I agree with that". One where you can be your true self and be more effective than ever. One which works within mans natural instincts (rather than fighting it). One where women will stay with you, if you choose. One that improves your personality, not your ability to learn.

I play the piano, and I'd rather play from the heart than rote. The same is true of seduction, I'd rather learn to be a better person than cram my head full of techniques. I want women to appreciate me for who I truly am, not because I know what to say or do.

The original exercise was to model myself so others could duplicate what I do. As such I've tried to isolate myself from the seduction community, even though I understand well enough what the seduction community is about. This was intentional, as I knew I had access to the treasure chest, but wanted to make a key for others. I've tried all the things that most men in to seduction have tried. But I wanted to make it REAL !, not fake, and that's what I've achieved. So I dropped all the ideas and just left what worked, at the most minimalistic level.

Don't get me wrong, I went through the same frustrations as everybody else when I decided to do this consistently. I've had more fingers flicked at me than I can count. I've been told to go away enough to make most guys sell their home and live in a cave. I even got knocked out once, I was king-hit (punched in the head from behind) by a drunken bouncer who was off-duty, when I regained consciousness I just smiled and walked off (I chipped my tooth as I hit the pavement unconscious), the guy was caught by police and convicted later, it was on street camera, he claimed he had a platinum fist. I persevered, because I knew I was on to something. Now I don't get rejected at all. Ever ! (I've mastered the art of pretending to extract myself before the rejection occurs, she gives minor signals of this, I then stay around, I do this in a very subtle way whereby she's ready to accept me again, even before I've left, and before she got the chance to flame me). My original goal was to perfect the one-night-stand pickup (mostly because I found that it was harder to do, I felt that normal seduction was too easy and almost beneath me, I like a challenge :) ), but soon I was having so much fun that I could wait. For over a decade I refused to see girls more than once, because picking up girls was more fun that going out with a girl I've already seen, I could talk to numerous girls a night instead of focussing on just one, and get the same result. I nearly always talk to the best looking girl at the club (or event) at some time in a night out.

I've heard stories of men who are raised by wild dogs. I suppose that I was raised by girls and women. My first day at Primary School consisted of me being beat up by a gang, a group of girls took pity on my plight and we played together, ever since I've hung around females. I know what they talk about when they go to the toilet together, how they think. I know them from their early years to their mature years. I understand many things about women better than they understand themselves. To put this in writing has taken a lifetime of understanding. While guys were kicking around a football I was learning Crochet. While guys were going through puberty I was sitting with the girls in class. I learnt to "just be" with women. Now I've mastered the art of easily and effectively passing on my skills to others in a very short time span.

I respect women, they were my support in my youth. Women can be viscious or wonderful, it's largely up to a man to control the situation.

It hasn't been easy working out what's going on with women, but I feel comfortable now that women aren't really confusing at all. There was a time I thought it was impossible for the conscious mind to figure women out. Even Sigmund Freud said that women are an unsolved mystery. I knew what worked with women, both naturally and trying things like NLP and other popular seduction techniques. This was OK, but I'm the sort of person who only feels comfortable knowing WHY things work, not HOW to do things. It's taken years and years of intensive activity with many 10's of thousands of dollars in research, but now I'm comfortable that I have something unique, something workable, and something that works from a foundational level, something that works from a level of understanding, not just trained ability.

Every man can learn from this, every man, rich, poor, good looking, ugly, tall, short, confident, shy, funny, boring, fit and unhealthy can succeed with what I'm saying, because it's been tested on every type of man. Even men who've had sex with hundreds of women learn a lot from me.

There'll be no more need for you to compromise with women, you'll know you can have almost any woman you want. I'm 45 and I mostly only interact with women between the ages of 18 and 23 (this works with women of all ages). And I only interact with women I'm highly interested in. I don't bother with anyone else unless it's being polite or the friends of the girls I want. It's easy to fear an attractive women, but I've found that women don't care, and why bother with less attractive women when highly attractive ones require just as much interaction, with just as much success using my system. Every woman has two eyes, a nose, legs and the rest, they all have a brain, that brain isn't connected to their looks, so pretty and ugly women both require equal effort using my ideas. It's only the difference between what you believe you can achieve that differentiates your abilities with different women. It's up to you, not her, how well things progress.

I suggest you read this book more than once and make notes along the way, there's a lot of useful information in there. I might also mention that what I've written in it is by no means all I have to say on the topic. With over 3,000 pages of original text I cut things down to the basics. There's a full course available, which is every bit as exciting as I hope you find the book.

We only live once, so this is one of my little contributions to society.

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